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		<description><![CDATA[In lieu of a useful life, and in anticipation of having one someday, this is a place to keep track of writing that makes me think, consider, reconsider, shamefacedly admit my mistakes, omissions and lack of consideration,  feel superior, inferior, or totally freaking furious. A friend who is a POC once (maybe more than once) [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ilaul.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11820764&amp;post=1&amp;subd=ilaul&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In lieu of a useful life, and in anticipation of having one someday, this is a place to keep track of writing that makes me think, consider, reconsider, shamefacedly admit my mistakes, omissions and lack of consideration,  feel superior, inferior, or totally freaking furious.</p>
<p>A friend who is a POC once (maybe more than once) tried to explain to me how she felt about her interaction with the world around us. I dismissed her feelings because I didn&#8217;t want to hear (and actually, I didn&#8217;t hear it until I remembered the conversation some years later, to my shame) that the immediate world around me could be racist. of course I knew that racism existed in <em>the world</em>, but I refused to see that it existed in mine. truly clueless.</p>
<p>so, a quest to listen to what I&#8217;m being told, especially when the person doing the telling knows truckloads more than me about the subject under discussion.</p>
<p>NOCs (Nerds of Color)[Essay]</p>
<p>By Bao Phi, originally posted at the Star Tribune Your Voices Blog</p>
<p><a title="NOCs" href="http://www.racialicious.com/2010/01/25/nocs-nerds-of-coloressay/" target="_blank">http://www.racialicious.com/2010/01/25/nocs-nerds-of-coloressay/ </a></p>
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